Everything is made up of energy and vibration from the smallest cell to the largest buildings or trees. It is just the speed of vibration that makes something appear solid or liquid or gaseous. From matter to emotions there is again only the speed of vibration that makes the lower vibrations of anger, envy, violence to the highest vibrations of joy, happiness, and love. Colour can reflect those emotional vibrations to further intensify the state with the sense of sight. Music can reflect the emotional vibrations to further intensify the state with the sense of hearing. One affects the other, but there are no rules to say it must only be one way traffic.

Does music create the emotional sensing or does the emotional sensing create the music we choose to listen to?

Did we create the emotion we are feeling or did we feel the emotion and create our life based on what we are feeling? Which comes first?

Do the colours we see reflect our mood or does the mood reflect the colours we like to wear, to see on the walls in our bedroom, or the seasons we like?

I spent most of my life being the affect of the energies about me which I perceived intensely until I learnt to turn it around the other way. I was allowing all the energies I perceived and received to impact me until I learnt to shut the gate and protect myself energetically. I have been able to turn my life around to not reflect the energies of those around me so much. I have learnt about energy and vibration and learnt to “deflect” it, to turn it around, to dissipate it, to be in the drivers seat, rather than be in the chaffuer driven into states of mind and emotional being that are not truly who I am.

My intrinsic belief is that we as a human being can change most things about ourselves if we choose to. But, if you have spent a lifetime believing what others have told you about you, then it is not an overnight fix to turn that around and challenge yourself to believe something different and start to change what appears in your life.

If you have been told that:

• You are wired differently
• You are slow or intellectual disabled
• You behave differently to others
• You are impaired in any way
• You are imperfect in any way
• You cannot change who you are, it is just the way it is

We know and there is plenty of science to back up that we create our own reality, our own lives based on our thoughts, words, actions and beliefs.

Most of us have spent our lives going around looking for the box that has our label on it and jumping into it. “Ah yes, this box fits!” This is who I am. And we shut the lid and call it home. Anytime someone or something comes along to lift the lid with our label on it, we can either go … Mm I wonder if I could change that, or No, this is home, this is who I am.

If you are the later, then you will probably find anything I have to say a waste of time and your energy.

But if you are interested in putting your hand out of the box and giving a few of the ideas here a go, then go for it.

Does the fact that I think its possible for you to change mean that I think you are imperfect? No, but if your life is not what you want it to be and does not have in it the things you would like it to have then, how do you go about filling those gaps; to take you from Place A to Place B?

Those on the Autism Spectrum perceive and receive the energies and vibrations of everything around them much sooner and more intensely than those around them. Their body and their minds “react” and show the outside world what vibrations they are feeling even if they cannot express it in words. Just as the tree is moved by the wind, those on the spectrum feel the energies and vibrations.

• They have not been taught how to recognise and move the energy – to divert, dissipate, transmute or transform it. Energy doesn’t end, it just transforms.
• They have not been taught how to protect themselves from the energies they are feeling. You put a raincoat on if you are going out into the rain. What if they could put an energetic raincoat on to go out into the public arena? Is it an instant fix? No? It takes time and practice to build that muscle. How many years have they believed something different about themselves? So if you expect an instant fix – it won’t be. I’ve been working on this for myself for years (about 15 to 20). If you realized how instantly their world is rocked by a 360 degree sphere of energy – it takes time to start to unravel who, how and what is impacting you energetically.
• They have believed the limitations that have been imposed and projected on them by others. For many the box is just fine and they will justify staying within it rather than lifting the lid of change and possibility. That is fine with me, just don’t drag others into the same box if they want to change. Allow them to be who they wish to be, just as you are allowed to be who you wish to be.
• They have been imposed upon with an attitude of imperfection, of less than, that there is something wrong with them because they are not like anyone else. But show me two individuals on or off the spectrum who are alike? What a load of baloney! You are free to be you as long as you abide by the laws of energy and vibration. And those laws are quite clear – if you do anything to harm another, to harm any life then that will return to you and you will wear that consequence. That law applies to all humanity and it doesn’t matter what race, colour, religion, intellect, or label you live with. There is no excuse for conscious destructive energy in any of its forms.

I don’t espouse cures, instant fixes, or solutions – although some suggested ideas may provide you with solutions – it is up to you to work with what is offered with the same persistence and resilience with which you created the beliefs of impossibility rather than possibility. Giving up was never a solution for me, but some may choose that.In other words, you are free to read, to listen to change thought patterns, beliefs, emotions, feelings and habits. It is up to you, not me. It is you who has to do the work to change your life if you would like. I offer – you can accept or decline at will.You are free to be you, to use what gifts you have and change those areas you perceive you fall short in or you seek change in. At the end of the day – everything is energy. Those areas of imperfection are just solid energy. You need to shake them loose to allow a different possibility. It is uncomfortable while you shake that energy free and reset new habits and patterns. But move with it, just as you would move with the wind, rather than stand against it. Everyone is blessed with the ability to change one’s mind – no matter how it has been wired!

“You are never given a wish without also being given the power to make it true. You may have to work for it, however.”
–Illusions by Richard Bach